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10/17/10

DISAPPOINTMENTS

We all have times when we are disappointed, either by other people or perhaps by ourselves. Sometimes they are minor disappointments, other times they are major traumas. They involve an anticipated outcome not being what was expected or desired. One thing this indicates is that we have not kept our focus on the present, but instead we have made an assumption about some future event/situation and how it will turn out that turns out to be incorrect. Also, there is often an element of self pity in these situations, a "woe is me" attitude. This points to the fact that we have not fully put our trust in God that he will work all things for good for those who love him. Whatever happens, God is still in control, even in our disappointing moments. Finally, we can be assured that in man we will inevitably be disappointed at some point in our lives, but in God we will never be disappointed in the end when we remain faithful!

...Then you will know that I am the LORD; those who hope in me will not be disappointed." Isaiah 49:23b

We can learn much from these disappointing times if we let God teach us, such as: appreciating the current moment, understanding those who disappointed us, forgiving those who may have hurt us, being content with what we have and what we experience, having patience for God's ultimate outcomes, and trusting in Him and his goodness. We can also seek God's will for what else He would have us do, always keeping in mind being a good witness to others involved. We can turn the disappointment into a new opportunity by looking at it with a different perspective. We can even thank God for our struggles when we realize how we can benefit through them or even bring glory to God because of them.

...we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. Romans 5:3-5

May God transform our disappointments into learning and witnessing opportunities!

Written by Jan A.
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  1. AnonymousOctober 22, 2010 at 6:42 AM

    Disappointment can hurt and it is good to allow ourselves to feel the pain. For each of us that timing is different - and it is okay. And at some point we also need to move through them and not stay stuck - how we respond to them can make all the difference. We can not only survive - but thrive! Trust in God to heal us.
    Patty B.

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