7/8/14
Yesterday I had to do something that I really didn't want to
do. Although I had a friend visiting me for a few weeks, my husband needed help
inserting a chimney liner into a customer’s chimney. I know that my husband
didn't want to ask for my help, knowing that I was on vacation and enjoying
time with my company. However, he would be very challenged to insert this liner
alone because the house was three stories tall and the job typically requires
two people. Someone should be on the roof lowering the liner down the chimney
while another person checks to make sure the adapter is lined up below. In
addition, chimney insulation (more like cement) needs to be mixed on the ground
and hauled up to the roof in five gallon buckets. If my husband had to do this
liner insert alone, he would have had to continuously climb up and down the
ladder, mixing the insulation, placing it in buckets, and then climbing back up
the ladder to the roof top. Certainly not an easy task! Out of desperation, my
husband said, “Who am I going to get to help me with this liner?” Our son was
busy with his own roofing business and could not spare any time or one of his
employees. A help wanted add that my husband placed in the paper went
unanswered and my step-father is still recovering from open heart surgery.
There was only one answer, I had to be the “helper”. So, I put on my best happy
face and said, “I’ll help you with the liner”.
My husband was quite relieved, but I was feeling disappointed. I would
much rather be going to the beach with my friend, driving around, or doing
anything but helping out with a chimney liner, especially when I heard it was
supposed to be hot outside that day. However, I tried not to complain. I know
that my husband would help me if I needed an extra hand. Besides, I am his help
mate and Jesus would expect me to help my husband when he had a need.
Sometimes we have to do things in life that we don’t want to
do like clean our house, do the laundry, run errands, cook supper, or help
someone out when all we feel like doing is playing. However, part of being
Christ like means taking care of our priorities and being responsible. We
should not ignore them or a brother’s need before fulfilling our own desires.
Deuteronomy 22:4 says,
“You
shall not see your brother's donkey or his ox
fallen down by the way and ignore
them.
You shall help him to lift them up again.”
I have found
that when we do everything as if we are doing it for the Lord, unpleasant tasks
become easier to bear. We also sometimes find that God blesses us too.
Although
helping my husband out was hard work and I was sweating so much that the salt
from my skin burned my eyes, God blessed me for my efforts. He blessed me for
my willingness to help. He blessed me for being obedient and for taking care of
my priorities. I ended up having a good day with my husband. The job was at a
house on an Island, which meant we had to take a ferry across the water. While
we waited for the ferry, my husband and I took a little stroll along the beach.
On the way out we saw dolphins swimming. After the job was completed, I was
given a quick tour of the island. I enjoyed the scenery and the refreshing
ocean air. The day ended with a juicy steak, cooked by my husband on the grill.
As for my friend, she was kept entertained by my mother and step-father. It was
a good day. God is good. He is worthy of our time. When we find ourselves
having to do something we really don’t want to do, do it anyway. Do it unto the
Lord.
Colossians 3:17 reads,
“And whatever
you do, in word or deed,
do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving
thanks to God the Father through him.”
Written by
Storm Hendrickson
So many times we are faced with a task that is highly inconvenient to our schedule and desires. We know this concept of how to behave but many times our thoughts do not even go there. So we whine either out loud or in our minds.I happen to be the friend who had to wing it while they installed the liner to the chimney. I had to admit that I was feeling a bit sorry for myself because of being deprived of a day together with my friend. I hope it is not too late to talk to the Lord thanking him for the great day my friend had and also for the really nice time I had with her parents. This is great food for thought.
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I cannot even tell you how much I needed to hear this word today. Thank you so much for sharing and inspiring us to do "the right thing" even when it is a personal sacrifice.
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